My name is Claire and I am 32 next month. Over the past couple of years I have noticed, that especiiay during winter, that I feel completely downhearted with everything in my life. I feel sorry for myself, anxious all the time, depressed, you name it, I feel it. I have been looking into trying St Johns Wort as a cure, but want to know if it works first. I think I do have SAD, as I don't feel like this in the summer. It is getting me down as I can't concentrate on work and my poor husband has to keep telling me he loves me and everything is OK. I think I just need to talk to someone to try and work through how I feel and just to know, it will get better.
We have a live chat room we use on tuesday if you want to talk to any of us other saddies and usually some of own sex if you prefere to chat to female for there experences with sad..
We are all a bunch of saddies, but enjoy life and we never let this SAD drive us fully down as we will always suport each other. :D
Yes you sound like you have SAD but I would (as always) suggest keeping a diary of symptoms, weather, emotions, unusual behaviour e.t.c (it can be brief) to use as a way of confirming you have condition and planning next winters plan of attack!!
St John's wort only works if you wear funny looking glasses, Birkenstock sandals, natural clothing and live in a dreary northern German suburb! 8)
I have listed my regime for dealing with SAD under 'it's a great day here', this seems to work best for me. I think whatever works for you is most important and be prepared for a holistic approach because unless your symtoms are mild you have to use a lot of different solutions.
Read up as much as you can i.e. winter blues by Norman Rosenthal, Angela Smyth did a book called Seasonal Affective Disorder but I am not sure if it has been retitled as Winter depression (can anyone clarify?).
Okay I'm a BLOKE so I am here to offer advice (sympathy is what your girlfriends are for!) but it does get better and over time you will manage situations and symptoms better,
first things first: there are no cures for SAD. SJW, light therapy, anti-ds and moving closer to the equator can all provide symptomatic relief / managment and even the cessation of some feelings BUT if you don't continue to manage it then the symptoms will return. Sorry.
Anyway, my poor husband is having to deal with me hating my job and although I'm handling my SAD quite well I do have my moments, particularly late in the evening when I'm tired.
he reassures me he loves me and thank goodness he's loving his job because it would be hell if he was having job worries too.