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MissAnya
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Posted by MissAnya, 23:41 15 November 2006

Man, I just got on Zoloft, so my body is still going through adjustments while foreign chemicals are being shoved into my system. Unfortunatelly Im Russian, and therefore a boozer. No, I'm not an alcoholic, but I do enjoy a few drinks 3-4 times a week. I started taking the medication on friday and drank both friday and saturday night. I seemed to be just fine, so I didn't this much about mixing two drugs with opposite effects.

Ever since my major break down last week (which was the reazon I got on meds), I have been able to maintain a cool, so everyone let out a sigh of relieve, believing that I'm better. Eh, I could just hide it once again, until the next break down.

Well, last night, I decided to have a beer. Yes, one single beer. Right away I felt really down. I became an irritated, irrational, emotional, uncontrolable..... bitch? drama queen? I don't know what word fits best here. And I went on in this manner all the way through the morning (around my friends and boyfriend), which finally ended with me crossing the line and apologizing nonstop for the way I've been acting. Now I am embarrassed and ashamed that I have lost control like that. And the thoughts that came to my mind at that point...... they're fucking ridiculous, I don't know what is wrong with me.

Well, I guess I really have to stay away from alcohol (though it's such a typical thing for me). Cause the last thing I want to find myself doing is taking my shit out on other people. Though the weird part is, only my boyfriend noticed what a crazy case I was being (I swear to god, that man can read my mind), everyone else didn't get what I was talking about when I proceeded with an elaborate apology (they just thought I was upset).


Anyone else have bad meds+alcohol experiences??
chasing_rainbows
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Posted by chasing_rainbows, 14:19 16 November 2006

I'm not currently taking meds, but I have had a few horrific incidents in the past when I've drank alchohol while I was on anit-depressants. It was a few years ago and I was taking seroxat (evil thing that it was) at the time. I don't know that it affected my mood, as I tend to get irritable and depressed when I drink certain alcoholic drinks anyway. My problem was that I would collapse and black out... several times a night. One moment I was chatting to my friends, the next I was on the floor wondering why my head hurt... later finding out that's what happens when you whack it off the bar on the way down! Needless to say after that happened to me on two different occasions I figured it was best to stay away from alcohol altogether. The only reason I can give for why I didn't come to my senses after the first night it happened is because I was young, and thought it was just a coincidence. :roll:

I also know a couple of people who's moods completely change if they drink while on their meds, and then I've heard other people say it doesn't affect them at all. It's a funny old thing.
sonnyjim
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Posted by sonnyjim, 16:10 16 November 2006

Hello Miss Anya and Chasing Rainbows, I used to like a drink myself. Two or three times a week bottle of wine or two.

I have been dogged by depression for the last 8 years. Recently I decided to quit alcohol (8 weeks ago) - ever since my depression symptoms have all but disappeared, no more irritability, no more tiredness, no more tears for no reason - its been a major breakthrough for me, just wish I would have tried it years ago.

Not saying that you should all stop drinking, I don't have a stop button when it comes to going out for a drink, so for me it was necessary, but thought you might find the result interesting.

Sonnyjim :D
MissAnya
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Posted by MissAnya, 16:44 16 November 2006

I feel really, really shitty right now.... and I want a drink. I know I shouldn't, but...... arghhhh. I think it's a Russian thing: we drink when we're happy, we drink when we're sad, when someone's born, when someone dies, etc.. Fuck, I want to take a shot or two right now.....
sonnyjim
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Posted by sonnyjim, 18:31 16 November 2006

Hi MissAnya, yeah I was like that at the start, it get's easier, and there are times when I would really really really like to drink, but that's just the addictive voice, commonly known as the AV and I just ignore it and pour myself a nice glass of Pomegranate juce and sparkling water, its lovely.

I must have some Russian blood in me then because I didn't need an excuse to drink either, happy, sad, birthday, christening, christmas, new job, lost job, exam passed whatever, if you want to drink you will find a reason!

Shame you are feel so shitty, I feel for you. Good luck Miss Anya.
MissAnya
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Posted by MissAnya, 18:45 16 November 2006

Thank you, I guess we all go through similar things. I just went tanning instead. Hopefully that will keep me away from the booze.
sonnyjim
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Posted by sonnyjim, 19:19 16 November 2006

That's great Miss Anya, there's always something better to do than booze and tanning sounds like a fab idea, might go and get myself a bit of a tan at the weekend, especially as there is no hope of any natural sunshine that would give me a tan til at least June!

Im off to get in a bath now, just got all my little boys tucked in bed, time to relax and read the paper.

Take care Miss Anya. Talk to you another time. :D
MissAnya
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Posted by MissAnya, 06:02 18 November 2006

It's Friday night. I don't care, I'm going out and getting drunk.... in truth I'm already tipsy. I need to be more social, rather than close myself off from people, and if that means being drunk (cause everyones drinking), so be it.... I just won't drink beer, now that I've seen the way it affects me.
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Linda
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Posted by Linda, 07:27 18 November 2006

Yes, it makes perfect sense . . . of course it's not the alcohol. It's just the beer.

Anya, you're going to keep having problems if you have to equate having a social life with people who drink. Not everyone feels they have to drink to have a good time, and not everyone will censure you if you decide not to have a drink yourself. You risk making yourself extremely ill by drinking alcohol while on an antidepressant.

When you feel more settled, give yourself some time to think over the options. You've got some decisions to make.

Linda.
Nebula01
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Posted by Nebula01, 15:03 18 November 2006

Hello from the midwest!!! I swear - yesterday I left this big post on alcohol and today it's not there! Wonder if I forgot to push "Post"?
I have discovered that I cannot drink with SAD! Last winter I took Nortriptyline and alcohol mixes poorly with that, so that kind of kept me out of the bars and clubs. And if I drink, I feel bummed for a week afterwards. It's a big life change not being able to drink. You have to change your friends and where you go to have fun. Now I'm just going to restaurants, shopping and the theater. I wish you the best avoiding alcohol. I used to allow myself to drink in the summer time - which gave me another reason to hate winter. Good luck!
MissAnya
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Posted by MissAnya, 18:42 27 November 2006

Well, I stopped taking the Zoloft. And no, alcohol for me is not a social thing, it's just a part of life. Anyway, I don't feel the need to explain myself and waste my time defending that which some may find an "alcohol problem". For it is not the problem.
Minnie
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Posted by Minnie, 23:05 27 November 2006

I really try not to drink now during the winter. I find it really gets me down.

In answer to MissAnya, the reason you shouldn't drink - bar chemical interactions - is because alcohol is a depressant. If you're on antideppressants already, why set yourself up to fail? Alcohol will do you no favours.

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