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SAD and lagging libido

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alit72
joined 26 Jan 2004
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Posted by alit72, 19:22 26 January 2004

Hi,

I'm new here. I'm from Toronto, Canada. I was diagnosed with SAD 7 years ago. Some winters the light box helps, some years medication is needed, and some years just a little Vit B will do the trick.

But this year is a little different...I didn't think I was really experiencing SAD this season. I've been feeling pretty ok, and thought the chocolate and junk craving and the exhaustion were carry overs from Christmas. However, way back in September I started to lose my libido. And what's worse, my sexual response went with it! If this is SAD, its new for me.

Has anyone else experienced this? I've seen my GP, and my blood tests are normal. I already have an appointment with a Gyn for tomorrow.

Today is the first day I really considered SAD as the cause of this, but now that I think back on the fall/winter, I see that I have other symptoms...food cravings that lead to overeating, exhaustion, irritability, low self-esteem, desire to be alone. Its just that none, except the libido/response problem, were bad enough to spark that SAD thought in my head!

I'd appreciate hearing what others think of this SAD/sex possibility. And ideally, I'd love to hear what will bring my dear, departed libido back!!

Thanks,
Ali
siddy
joined 22 Jan 2003
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Posted by siddy, 09:36 27 January 2004

Sorry Ali,

even my aura of sexual potency can't manage to reach out to Canada and although if the winds in the right direction I'm sure there will be a ethereal lure of my pheromones on the breeze! Obviously this hint of rampant sexuality will set you right:roll:

I look at it as a resting time due to being such a sexual ferocious being in the summer obviously the human body is to frail to deal with my libido all year round. :shock:

Er, you can take that response in the affirmative then! 8)

Anonymous
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Posted by Anonymous, 09:40 28 January 2004

me thinks I will post in anon format!

yes, it is all just too much effort, and isn't something i actually think about, well not in the way i naturally have it on my mind in summer! other half is very understanding and accepting, and makes the most of the summer me! but, i can't afford to worry about it otherwise that's just another problem to cope with, and the rest of sad's symptoms are so much more debilitating. what you don't want, you don't miss hey? and anyway, it does exist in a rather intermittent way in this house..
siddy
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Posted by siddy, 19:02 30 January 2004

well it was me that bust up them Atomic Kitten chicks. well it was after I done all three, they was up for it at the time but they got into a bitch fight about who loved me more. Said they couldn't work together again. They got all clingy so I chucked em out. The dark haired one was crying on my doorstep in the snow at 2.30 am so I chucked down her mink coat and called a cab well you gotta be chivalrous 'aint ya

Keepin it real............................ 8)

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