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oldhippy
joined 6 Jul 2003
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Posted by oldhippy, 20:25 20 October 2003

Ok guys you going to love this one.. :D :D :D

I while back I applied for a teaching job out in China teaching English (I have MSc) I completed the relevent paperwork a month ago and got a reply today.

Seem people with SAD suffer from depression and therfore it was company policy not to employ people that suffer from depression :shock:

man these guys really need some education as to what SAD is and how we can treat it. Its not even thought of Im going more near the equator, all these people see is one word "Depression" and think of us all as raving loonies :twisted: :twisted: :lol: :shock: :D

Well one of these days I will get da job :roll:

Just thought I would share this experence in the vain hope some employer looks and thinks "hey SAD sufferers can be treated with light" and not think we are all round the twist :mrgreen: 8)
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Posted by Donna, 19:28 22 October 2003

Oldhippy,
I would be tempted to not tell these people about you SAD and see how you got on !!!
I'm afraid sometimes you need to tell small lies to help yourself!!!
I know it shouldn't be like that :?
Don't give up, it's their loss!!!

Take care

Donna X
oldhippy
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Posted by oldhippy, 20:06 22 October 2003

Sure right there Donna. I think its will be a secret from now on. but it just goes to show honesty it not aways well recived..
Steph Attew
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Posted by Steph Attew, 19:47 11 December 2003

No, no, no, no......

Believe me!! Keeping it from employers is far, far worse!

I was diagnosed when I was 15, and started my job after 6th form when I was 18. I had spent those last years trying to ignore it, so didn't put it on my medical (plus my parents told me not to - they didn't understand me and were a bit ashamed I think) form. But....when it surfaced my first year at work, and I was sent home from work was when the problems started, and from then on, I was constantly on tablets, first for SAD, then for depression.

Firstly they sent me home, then after the week rang me and told me to get back to work, and thendemanded a dr's note even tho they had made me go home, and then refused it TWICE on the grounds that it wasn't legible and had no dates. In the end I had to get the Union involved, after I had found out the things my manager had been saying whilst I was away!

Be honest and upfront, its worth it, and since that, I had the offer of a lightbox being bought for me thru the disability fund. It never happened, bcos my Dr never sent them my medical notes, but at least they offered.........

Good luck to you sugar, those that don't understand wouldn't be worthwhile employers. Far better to find one that will be worth working for.

Kiki xxxxxxx
dawn mimnagh
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Posted by dawn mimnagh, 23:34 14 December 2003

To decide whether you should admit you have SAD to empoyers is certainly a tricky one. I think you have to balance whether your consience pricking you for keeping SAD a secret is harder to bear than the possibly negative reaction you will get from employers if you 'come clean'.

I started work as a graduate trainee for a well known retailer back in 1989. I was going through the first depressive period of my life, and had been to the docs but they had not taken me seriously. My mum was round the twist with worry about me, and so I started to try and hide it. Being depressed for the first time made it really hard for me to get used to working, and I was actually close to losing my job on 2 occasions as others thought I was a space cadet. I just could not concentrate and I had no interest in work (or anything else for that matter), but I was too embarrassed and afraid to admit what was wrong. Because doctors had not taken me seriously I thought I was imagining things and should shake it off. But of course I couldn't shake it off and it just dragged on and on...

In hindsight, although it was painful to be regarded as a crap employee when I was in fact ill, I think for me at that time, I did the best thing to keep quiet. People do change their impressions of you once they know you have been depressed and I would not have been mature or clued up enough to handle that. It is wrong that this happens to people, but we have to accept reality.

In other areas of life too we are sometimes faced with a similar dilemma. After I had my first baby I was very down (I thought it was postnatal but I actually think it was SAD on reflection). Around that time we were buying a flat and getting life insurance sorted etc. I wanted to be honest about my history and so when I filled out the forms I admitted to postnatal depression. Well did I wish I hadn't afterwards!! It delayed the process by weeks!!! They had to write to my doctor and put me on a special premium blah blah blah. And for what? I got over the depression, and I now have 2 kids, I am still married and I am a reliable employee despite the SAD. Did they really have to make me feel such a freak??

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