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isobel allen
joined 15 Feb 2007
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Posted by isobel allen, 18:03 15 February 2007

am i the only one in manchester to be unable to access support groups for sad suffers. having no family or friends i found this and last winter the worst in my years coping with sad. previous to this i have had support as i was not living here. i checked out the sad organisation to no avail and my doctor told me to look in the yellow pages!!! great help that was. i have started to use my light box which has helped a lot but i find that the constant low mood makes it difficult to cope with maintaining friendships and therefore you loose them.on the bright side i can hold freindships from march to october. having people who are in similar circumstances understand that are days that you :roll: can not cope would help so much.
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Posted by Piglet, 19:06 15 February 2007

Welcome Isobel, there is a pretty good support network on here. Perhaps its not the same as someone "real" but I guess us Saddies are not well suited to participating in support groups over the winter!

Stick around here for a while and hopefully you'll find that this helps.
siddy
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Posted by siddy, 20:15 15 February 2007

Hello,

I used to organise a support group in London and even in a big city like that we only attracted a few people. The other groups that I remember didn't have much success in other places either.

I am not sure there are any groups left these days but s.a.d.a used to have informaton on these
isobel allen
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Posted by isobel allen, 23:10 17 February 2007

thanks for all your support guys. i see that there is good support here. i try if at all possible to get out as much as possible even if i have to force myself. i go bonkers not having anyone to talk to. people think i am strange as i am not outgoing and as you can imange it gets worse in the winter to the extent i find it hard to string words together. i have lost so many friends over the years due to this winter depression. sometimes i feel like giving up but then snap back and fight back
siddy
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Posted by siddy, 17:26 18 February 2007

Hello,

I find paranoia creeps into my relationships with people and I see the negative parts of them. I understand that I am difficult to 'live with' sometimes but my tolerance of other peoples weaknesses is short and I also feel that a lot of people are unlikely to want my friendship.

In summer I am the type of person who wants to get everyone together for a party and let bygones be bygones which I know is difficult for some people to understand if I have been distant or bad tempered over winter.
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Posted by Suzie, 05:44 19 February 2007

I have sat my friends down and explained to them as best possible that they may not hear from me as much as they would because I am so negative. Sometimes when my friends call I ask my partner to tell them I am asleep or out if I really don't feel like talking, or I will tell them myself that I am having a bad day and am really sorry, I will call them back. I have also armed them with a list of how I will be feeling in the winter and how my personality may change so that they understand a bit better. I did this for my family as well so that they don't make so many demands on me during this time. It really does help aliviate any awkwardness when dealing with the demands of friends and family and helps them to understand that it isn't their fault in any way that you are being distant from them.
Joannet
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Posted by Joannet, 12:17 22 February 2007

Hi Isobel,

I live in Manchester, feel free to Pm me anytime you want a chat with someone "local" :)

Take Care
Joannet
Kirstie
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Posted by Kirstie, 15:17 22 September 2009

Hello

I wonder if there are any SAD sufferers who would be willing to come and do an interview in Manchester about the sypmptoms of SAD and to make people aware before the Winter descends upon us.

PurpleIvy
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Posted by PurpleIvy, 20:06 22 September 2009

I don't live too far away. I would be happy to talk to you. How about an interview by phone? Or mail questions to me?

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